Monday, August 31, 2015

FAMILY LETTER 08.30.15

Dear Loved Ones,
We survived! Summer and back to school are done! Now if we can just make it through these wildfires without lung cancer and/or sinus damage!
I blogged a bunch of photos earlier, so you can check out how the second half of August went IN PICTURES! Since our last letter, we spent a week getting all registered for school and organizing our school supplies. We enjoyed some park time, some harvesting from the garden (a week of salads we grew ourselves!), and on the 18th James advanced to a Wolf Scout. He is very excited about his 9th birthday next week since he’s always the last guy in his troop to have a birthday. The rest of that week we cleaned and packed and cooked in preparation for our first ever Layton Family reunion, a 3-night camp out at Mack’s Inn in Island Park Idaho with all of Dad Layton’s offspring.
 On Thursday (8.20) we arrived at camp a day earlier than most of our group, but my sisters Erin and Rhonda were already there and our first night with just our three families was memorable. It was seriously heartwarming to see all the cousins get together and play as if they’ve been pals since birth. We had a great time around the fire visiting and joking and making s’mores. The girls had their own tent and invited Cousin Kennady to sleep over with them.  Rich did an amazing job setting up camp and trying out all his latest devices and improvements. It was cool to see how well he got a long with all the brothers in law, especially that first day with Clinton and Josh—SO FUN.
Friday morning we got up and puttered around camp. We had pancakes with berries and bacon that morning, then we started roasting the meat for pulled pork sandwiches that night. We took the kids to the playground and then decided to visit Big Springs and John Sacks’ cabin. Rich stayed behind to let Ammon nap and met up with us as we came down from the cabin and explored the springs. We came back to camp around 2pm and made sandwiches for lunch. Willy’s family, Sam’s family, and Dad and Becky had arrived. Laura and Lisa soon followed. The forecast for Saturday was windy and colder, so we decided to try a “short” river float Friday evening. We figured it was a 1-2 hour float, and then we’d be ready to start gathering for dinner. Rhonda and I stayed at camp with our babies, and Erin’s family was in Yellowstone.  So Sam’s family, Will’s family, my family (minus Ammon and me), plus Rhonda’s two eldest girls (Aubrey and Ellie) got in the freezing cold river just below the Big Springs launch and headed out. About an hour later Rich called and told me that Heidi had flipped over and wanted to get out so he had walked her back up to our parking spot and wanted me to come get them. We waited another hour and I started getting concerned. After 2-1/2 hours it was almost 6pm and everyone who didn’t float was gathering for dinner. I knew my kids were hungry and cold, so I asked Rich to look for them. He drove up and down the banks of the river and didn’t see them. I started freaking out. The sun was going down and I sat at the dock with my car heated to 80 degrees watching for them. An hour later—3-1/2 hours after they left—Sam pulled up behind me. They had gotten out a few docks down and gone into their cabins, and he had driven my kids to our campsite. I was so sad for them! We gave them hot showers and settled in for a late (8pm) dinner and a good laugh about it all. Owen (age 6) said he wants a T-shirt that says, “I survived the River Disaster of 2015!”
Saturday morning we ate Mountain Man breakfast at camp and took the kids over to the playground to play. Dad had already taken off with Becky to West Yellowstone so we didn’t actually spend any time with him except the two dinners. We were expecting cold weather so we decided to go to West Yellowstone and shop around, picnic at the park, and maybe duck into a movie or museum of the weather got bad. The weather was chilly, but it was a beautiful day. We had a fun walk around town and played at the park, and topped it all off with candy and fudge from the cute candy store there. We came back to camp to take a rest, everybody kinda went their separate ways, a couple of brothers went fishing, Will’s family was out 4-wheelin’, and Rich was cooking up his dutch oven classics—deep dish pizzas and a cheesecake. I had premade two pans of chicken enchiladas and cilantro lime rice, and everybody added to the potluck. Josh and Clinton made amazing Hawaiian chicken; there were delicious salads and desserts, and so many kids and good company. After everyone was good and grubby and the sun began to set, we took a bunch of group portraits. Then we cleaned up dinner and gathered around the fire. Little kids got bathed and put to sleep, big kids and grown-ups stayed up late by the fire quoting favorite movies, singing songs, sharing memories.
Sunday morning some of us went to church—there is a full-size LDS chapel within walking distance of our camp there in the woods. We didn’t have good Sunday clothes, but we wore our cleanest camp clothes and enjoyed a lovely sacrament meeting. Then we went and broke camp. I took all the dirty laundry and leftover food in my van with all the kids except James. He stayed behind to help dad pack up the tent trailer and gear. They went home through Yellowstone so they could put stuff away at the ranch. I came home through Ennis and got home in time to do two loads of wash, bathe the kids, clean and vacuum the car, and take a desperately- needed 3-hour nap. It was so good to reflect on the weekend and all the blessings and healing the gospel can bring to our families, even if we come to it from less than ideal circumstances. I am so thankful for and proud of my siblings who have pulled it together and are creating a nurturing and happy place for their children to grow up. I testify that there is no better or more worthy way to spend your energy and resources, and you are giving the world a gift in your children!
So last Monday (8.24) we got up and got our ducks in a row for school—no rest for the weary! So much laundry! We had grandpa and grandma Melin over for dinner and family night and they brought us yummy treats—lime slushes made with margarita mix—yum! Tuesday we continued getting organized for school and the kids had some last hurrah playdates. I was beat, so Rich took us out for back to school dinner at Rib and Chop House, then we came home and he gave each of the children a Father’s blessing for the school year. They went to bed a little late, but very full and happy. Wednesday was the first day of school for Heidi, starting 6th grade and middle school, and James, starting 4th grade at Eastside with awesome Mrs. Petersen.  All of the cub scouts are in the same class, if you can believe that! I love it. Thursday Addie started 8th grade. I thought she would be excited to rule the school this year, but she’s not so much. She has the same social anxieties I had and watching her peers start doing dumb teenager stuff is getting to her, but she was happy to find some friends in her classes and hopes for a good year. Thursday night we had the missionaries over late to say good bye to Elder Brock who finished his mission and went home to Mesa on Saturday. Friday was busy getting Rich and the scouts ready for their last summer hurrah—a river float and camp out on the Yellowstone River. My brother Matt and his kids came to stay the weekend with us, so it was me and Matt and 8 kids at home—party! Matt stayed home with the 3 littles while I took the 5 bigs to watch “The Princess Bride” screened on the lawn at the church—so fun!
 Friday night the scouts floated from the ranch down to Mallard’s Rest where they ate dinner camped for the night. In the morning they floated from Mallard’s to Carter’s Bridge.  I picked up Rich and Aaron Roberts and shuttled them back to the ranch and Mallard’s to get all their stuff and left Addie and Izzzi to swim beneath the bridge. I went back to Carter’s bridge, picked up the girls, took Brother Jones home and took Izzi home and went back to my house (3 hour round trip) where Matt was just leaving with his kids and James to go to Chico Hot Springs (around 4pm).  Rich and I unpacked a little and rested a little, and then it was time to feed the missionaries some dinner. We’ve been making breakfast for dinner lately, so we fed them Mountain Man dutch oven (eggs, potatoes, bacon, sausage, peppers, mushrooms and mixed together and baked) left over from the camp out. We had a good visit and they left at 7pm, just as Matt was coming home with the gang. I was completely and totally exhausted and so thankful I had ironed everybody’s clothes earlier in the week and the kids were all bathed and ready for Sunday. We basically crashed after we got the little boys to sleep, though we got up a few times to make the other kids go to bed. I led choir practice at church at 9am Sunday morning, then sacrament meeting, then I brought Ammon home to nap and I cooked some lunch(which I rarely do these days—Sunday is Cup O Noodles Day! Hooray!)  because Matt and his kids were still hanging out at our house. Chicken Stir Fry was a hit, and we had a great nap. Matty left around 4:30. We baked zucchini bread after naps, home teachers came at 5:30, and we uploaded pictures and watched some TV and put people to bed around 8pm. Ready for our first full week of school, woo hoo! Niles teachers will visit us this week, then he will start the Pre-K program on September 8th. Then it’s Ammon and Mom time J
We hope nephews Simon Melin (4) and Brady Hamlin (11), Audrey Post,  and Papa Mark had great birthdays last week! James and Uncle Anthony Stagner are coming up this coming Saturday and Monday—have a great Labor Day birthday, Anthony! We look forward to celebrating Uncle Matt’s new house, James’ 9th birthday, and Rich’s Cousin Rachel’s wedding in Helena Saturday. Can’t wait to hear about YOUR Labor Day weekend-- post pictures!
 We love you!
Love, Rich and Jamie and Family
 
Tuesday 8/18 morning snuggles before registering the girls for middle school.

Tuesday night 8/18 was Pack Meeting and James advanced to Wolf Scout. He worked hard over the summer completing his requirements.

I got to paint his face!

Mom and he Wolf cub and crazy daddy photobomb.

Addie grew these flowers from a little seed in science class last school year. She brought home the shoots in a cool 2-liter bottle hanging planter thing and now look at them! Ammon loves them because they are his height.


Too bad the tomatoes didn't grow as well as the flowers. Next year we will have a MUCH better drip system for watering.
 
* August 20-23 we camped at Mack's Inn in Island Park, Idaho for the first ever Layton Family Reunion. We made the reunion its own post...it was great!*
 
Mommy was so exhausted after the reunion and back to school dinner and family night with the Grandparents, Daddy treated us to back to school dinner at Rib and Chop House. We were SO excited that mushroom stuffing is back on the menu! Ammon loved it! After dinner we had baths and Rich gave each of the children a Father's Blessing to begin the school year.

Wednesday 8.26 was the first day of school for all elementary grades, plus 6th and 9th grades (they give the new kids at the middle and high schools a day to get familiar with the school and their schedules without the upperclassmen distracting them). So Heidi and James started school on Wednesday--6th and 4th grades.



Thursday 8.27 was the first day of the 8th grade for Adeline. She was not excited, but I think she was happy to see her friends.

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That night we were so tired, but we stayed up to say good bye to Elder Brock. He's been a very good missionary serving in our ward for a total of 11 months, and he went home to Mesa AZ on the 29th. We are really happy for him and his family!

On Friday 8.28, Ammon was in a SILLY mood so we took lots of pictures.
Uncle Matt Post and his kids came to spend the weekend with us from Helena. They got there Friday night. Uncle Matt stayed at the house with Emily, Niles, and Ammon while I took the big kids to an activity at the church--"Princess Bride" screening on the lawn under the stars on a PERFECT NIGHT!
Addie and Jeanette getting snacks in the gym.

Humperdinck!

Buttercup!

Nephews!
 

Rich was camping with the scouts at Mallard's Rest. They floated from the ranch to Mallard's Rest, then ate dinner and camped. In the morning they had a big breakfast and floated from Mallard's to Carter's Bridge. I was hanging out doing Saturday stuff with Matt and all our kids.
Floating into camp Friday night.

Dutch Oven cheesecake dessert!

Dreamy night on the Yellowstone!
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I will post the float pix in a separate post--it looked so fun!

Monday, August 17, 2015

FAMILY LETTER 08.16.15


Dear Loved Ones,                                                                                             

Remember all that stuff we had planned in our last letter? Well, we did it all, except the Layton Reunion, which is coming up this week. We are WORN OUT, but ready for one last hurrah.

The first Monday in August we went swimming then made dinner for two families whose moms aren’t well. We cooked a triple batch of mac and cheese and it was HUGE. We also watched Niles’ friend Kenny for a few days that week while his mom recovers from surgery. Tuesday 8/4 Heidi and James had dental appointments in Bozeman so we took Kenny with us and stopped to do some back to school thrifting at the awesome Bozeman Goodwill. James got to go back to the dentist on Wednesday for a tiny filling and sealants. Thursday we caught up on chores and laundry—I had to get everyone’s church clothes ready  since I’d be gone til late Saturday night.

Addie and I got packed up and left for Utah at 4pm Thursday 8/6 to attend Jordyn Yarborough’s wedding. We crashed at Uncle Sam Layton’s house around 11pm. Friday 8/7 Addie and I had breakfast with Laytons and headed out to have some fun in SLC. At home, Kelsey Gray babysat the other kids while Rich worked in the morning, then he took the kids camping at the Madison River that night. The Jelli cousins, the grandparents, and Uncle Mike joined them and it looked like a great time. Meanwhile, Addie and I had Smashburger for lunch and shopped a little, then we took Nana a birthday gift and visited for a minute. Then we headed to Jordyn’s pre-wedding Open House after stopping at Swig for an Italian Soda and a sugar cookie. The Open House was held in Sugarhouse in the courtyard of the chapel Jakeob’s family attends and it was really charming (like our building in Millcreek). The Westenskows, Tyners, and Holms were already there. Iceberg Drive In catered the evening so there were burgers, fries, and shakes to eat and lots of friends to visit with. There was a huge cloudburst in the middle of the party and everyone scrambled to rescue the pretty decorations and move everything into the cultural hall. Phew! After the open house, Addie and I headed over to stay with Martin and Becca Buchert at their home. We had such a nice visit, even though Eden and Soren were gone to Youth Conference and Addie didn’t get to hang out with them. We had to get up early to get to the temple by 7:15am, but we made it!

The wedding on 8/8 was wonderful, Jordyn looked angelic, and her new in-laws are such excellent and supportive people. We are so grateful she and Jakeob found each other! They were sealed by Jake’s grandfather, Elder Koellicker, and many of his family were in the temple with them. They had a beautiful lunch reception at the Joseph Smith Building, then they headed to their honeymoon in Florida at Disneyworld. It was so edifying to feel all the love in the room; we are so thankful for Jordyn’s friendship and example to our daughters. At 2:30, I picked up Ally and Isabelle and they came home with Addie and me to visit for a week. While we were driving home, Rich was heading home from his camp out with the kids. We got home around 9:30pm and Rich had the camping laundry done and the boys all bathed and waiting for us at the garage door. It was so sweet. Everyone was so excited to see Ally and Belle, too!

We went to church Sunday morning 8/9 and took some good solid naps—Rich and I were tired from all the weekend fun! While we napped the big girls had Niles give them makeovers, which was hilarious. We had dinner together, then brownies and movies. Monday 8/10 we met up at the park for a picnic with our old friend and neighbor, Lorraine Blatter and her new baby. It was great to see them. Afterward we picked up trash for James’ environmental achievement thing for cub scouts, and I brought Ammon home to nap. The big girls took a bike ride to Chadz coffee shop and all around downtown. I ran to Costco for some groceries and made dinner for our family and a sick friend’s family, then we had family night and the girls played games and watched movies while we got the little boys to bed. Tuesday 8/11 we did chores and scriptures and James finished up his Wolf scout requirements (YAY!) and we  headed for the park for the Primary Activity from 10am-noon. The leaders planned fun relays and activities for the kids with a hot dog lunch and it was really nice. Ammon and Niles had been up a lot Monday night, so when we got home from the activity they both napped until 4pm, I kid you not! Wednesday we had a bunch of playdates after chores and scriptures. First Katy Warren and her girls came to play and have lunch. Then at 1pm Jessi Tyner and her boys came to play. When they left, Addie and I started making Navajo tacos for dinner, and it was time for YW and scouts. Rich and the girls got home super late because they drove Jess and TJay back to the ranch after stopping to get a treat—fun cousin times! Thursday morning 8/13 we had a home visit for Niles’ preschool and go all of his paperwork done. Afterward, I wanted to take the kids bowling but the alley is being remodeled. So we tried mini-gold in Bozeman, but it was shut down. So we played for a while at the toy store (yeah, me and 7 kids!), browsed for books at Barnes and Noble, and played some games at the arcade (highlight: air hockey with Niles). Addie bought TJay a birthday gift and we headed home to get ready for his party at the ranch. Kelli made a yummy taco dinner with an amazing Mexican chopped salad and triple chocolate cake for TJay. The kids played like crazy til sundown (it was SO HOT with no breeze…like 96 degrees) and we headed home with plans to float the river on Friday. Rich and the girls went downtown for the Livingston HOOT (a musicfest on Main Street). Friday we did chores and laundry and got Ally and Belle ready to go home the next day. I made some teriyaki pork, coconut rice, and crab rangoons to serve for dinner with Kelli’s Mexican leftovers after the kids floated the river. Rich met us at the ranch at 4:30 and we sent everybody down the river at 5 and ate dinner at 6:30. We got home at 8:30 and got kids to bed and Rich headed out to see a movie with his brothers (“The Man from Uncle”). We had a freakish wind and lightning storm Friday night, but I don’t think it ever really rained.

Saturday morning (Happy Birthday, Nana!) Addie, Ally, Belle, and I left our house at 7:45am and drove to Idaho Falls so Uncle Drew could meet up and pick up his girls. We got there at 11:30 and stopped at Deseret Book, then we went to lunch at CafĂ© Rio with Uncle Drew. We had such a good visit—I’m gonna miss those girls so bad! When we got in the car, we realized that the play that Addie wanted to see all her friends in had its last show at 5pm, not 7pm like we thought, so at 1:15 we left Idaho Falls with the goal of making it to the Shane Center in Livingston by 4:45. We got there and the show was sold out, but they put us 9th and 10th on standby. Addie started crying. We waited for Heidi to meet us on her bike. 10 minutes later, they called our names and gave us two tickets and Addie and Heidi got to see the show. YES!  At 7 the whole family went to Jordyn’s reception at the church. We had fun seeing her and her family again, and my boys had fun pigging out on candy. Sunday morning 8/16, I took Addie, Heidi, and Niles to church while Rich took Ammon and James to Yellowstone to meet up with his BYUH buddy Trent and Trent’s family. They met at West Yellowstone and Rich was their tour guide on our Parks Pass. They had a Yellowstone bucket list and it sounds like they checked it all off. Rich got home around 11:30pm. The rest of us just did church, naps, started this letter, then had the Jones family over for cookies and visits, then bed time. It was nice to go to bed with a chill in the air instead of the deathly heat of last week!  This week is all about school registration and Layton Reunion, can’t wait to report on that next week. We love you all and wish you well!

Love, Rich and Jamie and Family
 
Monday 8/3: enormous pot of cheese sauce for triple batch of mac & cheese

Tuesday 8/4: James and Heidi at the dentist with their blow-up animal prizes

8/4: Niles sneaks out and climbs on Mike's construction equipment regularly, little punk. Mike is building a house right next to us!

8/5: Miki Ogao drove from Tucson to LA to SLC to our house on her cross-country road trip. She had a goal to see al 50 states before she turned 40 and she needed to see the Dakotas so we were on the way! Yay! She went all the way to Virginia and back before her birthday, which is next week.

Tucson was on fire the first week of August. Here is a view looking north/northeast from downtown- Pusch Ridge was on fire...so sad.

8/6: Addie and I headed to Utah for a wedding

8/7: Addie at Smashburger in SLC

8/7: Martin and Becca bought a twinner van the same day we came to visit!

This is Martin and Becca. I stole this picture from them on their 19th anniversary this week.
I love them.

8/8: Jessi T. took this beautiful picture of the temple on the morning of Jordyn's wedding

8/8: Addie fit right in with the bridesmaids waiting outside of the sealing.
(Haylee Holm, Addie, Lisa Gillies)

Addie and Me waiting outside of the temple after the sealing at 8:45am

Mr. and Mrs. Ontiveros, first public appearance

Melissa took this picture of Jordyn and Marissa. Marissa left for her mission to Baltimore via the Mexico City MTC the following Wednesday.

Beautiful Jordy with her husband and parents.
(Lisa, Jake, Jordyn, Roger)

At the lunch with Jordyn
(their slide show and first dance made us cry)

Jordyn has been like a wonderful big sister to Addie.
They love each other.
Addie with Jordyn before Jordyn's mission to Tucson.

Me and my sweet sisterfriend, Melissa Westenskow.
 
Jordyn calls us her "Mormon Moms"
 Jessi, Debbie, Me, Melissa



On Sunday afternoon, the big girls let Niles give them makeovers. Behold the beauty!

8/10: Monday Picnic with Lorraine and her miracle baby, Gabriel. Loved seeing her again!
8/10: Niles tagged along with Ally most of the day
 
Ally, Niles, Addie, and Belle waiting for Family Home Evening Monday night.
8/12: Playdates! Warren girls jumping with my boys
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8/13: Niles with a Medusa hat at the toy store in Bozmean
8/13: TJay's golden birthday--13 on the 13th!
Heidi driving the Ranger at the ranch...watch out, gophers!
Teenagers! (and crazy Summer)
Ammon after a bath on the deck at the ranch house



 
8/15: Saying goodbye to my girls at Café Rio in Idaho Falls
Flashback: Addie, Ally, and Belle in 2002
Addie, James, Belle, and Ally in 2010
Addie and Isabelle 2009
With Uncle Drew...we sure love these cousins!!!







 

FAMILY LETTER 07.28.19

Dear Loved Ones,                                                                                                        We have just ...