Monday, May 21, 2018

FAMILY LETTER 05.20.18


Dear Loved Ones,

It has been a dreamy week of beautiful Montana spring, warm days mixed with rainy days and thunderstorms, which does my Arizona heart good. I love some good monsoon thunder and lightning!

After I last wrote, the night of Mother’s Day, I could not sleep to save my life! I finally fell asleep after 4:25am, then I was up at 7 to get kids to school. I thought I might have to clear my schedule, but I went ahead with my day, attending Parent Advisory Committee at PHS, taking bison jerky and dried cherries to Heidi’s History class, doing laundry, filling the planters at Rich’s office with flowers, making dinner, and going to bed EARLY with no FHE lesson. Luckily I slept great that night and no FHE gave the 3 big kids time to spend the whole evening on school work as the year is coming to an end.  I have no recollection of Tuesday 5/15, except feeling better and cleaning the kitchen and staying up to help big kids on homework and having family prayers with just them after the little boys crashed. Oh! And James made an amazing dinner (with a little supervision) of grilled chicken, gemelli alfredo, and green salad. YUM! It was nice to have everyone home—that gets more rare as the girls get older and busier every few months. I’m still kind of amazed at what a short time we truly have our kids all to ourselves—the blink of an eye!!!

Wednesday was a gorgeous day and I thought for sure we would have a fun, sunny evening at the ball fields, but I was wrong. After picking up Ammon from preschool, I went by the store and grabbed some fried chicken and strawberries to chill for dinner. I also packed some carrots and celery and almonds and juice/water, excited for a ball park picnic. Well, the skies grew cloudy between 5 and 6, and though we started the game and ate dinner in peace, that wind and rain kicked up by 6:40. Rich had to leave for Scouts and YW right about that time, so he helped me pack up everything. I finished watching the game with Ammon and Grandma and Grandpa Melin, and I brought the little guys home for a bath and a snuggle. They are super into watching Zoboomafoo and Wild Kratts right now, so we watched 2 episodes and they were asleep before 8. Rich and the bigs came home and worked on school work for a while, then hit the hay, too.

Thursday I worked all day making green chili chicken for enchiladas and assembling red chili pork tamales. I was kind of bummed because even though I thought the tamale dough was a little thick, I went ahead and made them, then realized I had forgotten to add 3 cups of broth to the dough. They taste amazing, but they are not fluffy and tender like an abuelita’s and I was bummed. One of these days I’m gonna nail it. Have you guys seen the youtube video ad for the tamale spreader? That abuelita can crank out, like, 40 tamal husks in a minute-- #goals!! Thursday night we grilled burgers and I made the kids do chores to get ready for Hamlins (my Sister Sara’s family) visit and for Camporee. The girls were not happy about having to be home and help (Adie wanted to hang with her track friends because it was the last practice of the season, but since she was leaving at 6am for a 40-hour trip with them,  I said no, come home. This was not her favorite). We finally got everything under control and kids to bed by 10pm.

Friday Ammon had a playdate with Raef Johnson while I finished up prep cooking—enchiladas and birthday cake. That afternoon was rainy and Rich had to load up the scout trailer and head to Spring Camporee with James. This year they camped in a nearby quarry and learned about geology. They had a National Guard climbing wall, orienteering, biking, shooting—James was in 7th heaven, and I think Rich was happy to finally be scouting with his own son. Meanwhile at home, Addie was gone to Glendive (6 hours east of here) for track divisionals, and Heidi was home with me and the little boys.  We celebrated Niles’ birthday eve with Happy Meals (and chicken strips with greens for us girls) and early bed times. So Saturday, Niles’ head popped off daddy’s pillow at 6:20am, screm-whispering, “Maaaaahhhm! I’m seven! Maaaaaahhhhm!” Argh. My seven year old wanted his birthday breakfast, so we got up and ate sausage and eggs and blueberry muffins while Ammon and Heidi slept in. Once Heidi was up, I ran to the store for some last minute birthday dinner items since Sara had texted that she was just leaving Great Falls at 9. Turns out she was actually arriving in Livingston, and I ran to the store just as she was coming to my house. Ooopsie! I came home and Sara helped me finish cleaning up, wrapping gifts, making and entire loaf of bread’s worth of sandwiches with apples, carrots, and chips for 7 kids. It was still rainy and kind of cold, so aside froma few forays out to the trampoline, the cousins had to make their own fun inside on the xbox, board games, making art, etc. Rich and James came home at 4pm and unpacked. Then they helped me get our Mexican Fiesta ready to celebrate Niles. The Jones family joined us for dinner. Just as we finished, Grandpa and Grandma Melin brought over some special guests—Mom and Dad Hite from Colorado Springs! It was such a fun reunion! We had cake and presents, then the kids whacked a guitar piƱata out back. The Joneses and the grandparents left around 8pm, and all the cousins piled on the couch downstairs to watch “Coco” again (which they had watched with us in the theater on Thanksgiving).  Addie texted at 11pm asking me to pick her up at the HS from the track bus. It was nice to have her home. She was happy with her personal best throwing at divisionals and we are proud of her for trying something new and getting in such good shape.

Sunday 5/20 was Seminary Sacrament Meeting. Sara and her kids joined us, and the grandparents and the Hites were right behind us. Addie was the chorister, plus she spoke (along with the other 12 seminary students) about what she learned from the Book of Mormon. She spoke about Abinadi and how we can stand as witnesses, boldly, no matter the consequences, and we never can tell when a seed has been planted, even in just one heart like Alma’s. Every seed counts! All the kids shared good thoughts and testimonies. They also sang “Peace in Christ” again together. During the Sunday School hour, Rich and I took photos of the Hamlin kids before Sara took them home. It was so great to see them, and such a beautiful day for photos. The rest of Sunday consisted of lunch, naps, then taking the girls plus Robyn Jones, Naomi Johnson, and Margaret Baker over to the stake center in Bozeman for our stake women’s conference.  It was a sweet meeting, and the best thing I got out of it was inspiration for the music in Sacrament Meeting the next few months ;) It was a gorgeous night for a drive, and we got to watch the sun set as we dropped all our friends off. The girls and I ate some scrambled eggs and sausage for dinner and got to bed before 10 (the little guys were asleep when we got home). I love spending time with my girls; I will be so sad as they leave the nest, but our get-togethers thereafter are going to be EPIC cuz they are awesome.

We are so grateful for the beautiful weather and this gorgeous place we call home, for family and friends, and especially for Niles coming to our family seven years ago. Even though he was a huge surprise, I can’t imagine life without that amazing boy! We love and miss you all and wish you a wonderful week!

Love, Jamie and Rich and Family



























Our town is a sea of trees!
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Celebrating 7 Years with Niles!






Sunday, May 13, 2018

FAMILY LETTER 05.13.18


Dear Loved Ones,  
Happy Mother’s Day to my mom, my MIL, my Gram, my Aunties, and my 18 sisters/sisters-in-law. Each of you has taught me tons about nurturing, loving, healing, serving, and unconditionally loving. I hope you all feel loved and valued today, because you are! Today has been sweet, peaceful, and overcast—just the way I like it.

Monday 5/7 was a regular busy errand-running Monday for me. For Family Night Rich and I helped the kids make gifts and notes of appreciation for their teachers (the boys potted flowers and the girls baked cookies). On Tuesday 5/8 we were all home for a change and we enjoyed a family dinner and some trampoline time.

Wednesday 5/9 was busy day! Ammon wanted to stay home from school and he helped me do some more potting of plants, housework, etc. and at 2:30 we headed out to pick up all the other kids to attend Heidi’s end of the year drama assembly at SGMS. Heidi started the club this year with Ms. Clewis as faculty advisor and they have done a lot of cool stuff through the school year. At the assembly they presented a fun 20-minute version of “MacBeth.” It was awesome and we are so proud of Heidi for taking the initiative to create a place for her fellow “drama nerds” to get together and share ideas and experiences. We gave flowers to all the participants, and Big Sky Insurance made a donation to keep the club going next year, hopefully—there were some really great 6th graders in the club who can keep the dream alive ;) That night, we had a Youth Activity BBQ at Sacajawea Park and Niles’ baseball game, both at 6pm. So I took Niles to his game while Rich took everyone else to the park to start grilling up burgers and dogs. Of course a storm blew in and it started raining COLD rain at 6:15, so half the games was kind of miserable, but it cleared off and the field didn’t get too muddy. I only took one photo, of Niles playing 2nd base. Rich set up the BBQ under the gazebo, so they were able to eat out of the rain, then it cleared off in time for the kids to play Frisbee and tag. Niles and I went over to join them at 7:30 but there wasn’t any food left, so I took him to Mark’s In and Out. We saw our sweet friend Zach Roberts there getting off work and got to wish him a happy 17th birthday.

Thursday 5/10 was Ammon’s 4th birthday. Rich came and woke us up with a toy birthday cake that plays “Happy Birthday.” Ammon wasn’t very cheerful—he snuggled into my back and gave Rich his famous wag of the finger and said, “No, Dad. I need a real cake!” Grumpy bum! Rich made him sprinkle pancakes and sausage while I helped the boys get dressed. We went to eat breakfast with Ammon just as Addie and some seminary girls showed up between seminary and school. They all sang to him and gave him kisses and helped him eat his pancakes and sausage. He opened a card from Grandma Melin, then he was off to preschool wearing his “Birthday Boy” badge. After school, we all headed over to the bowling alley where we ate pre-grilled brats, watermelon, and cupcakes after a round of bowling and some arcade games. The Johnsons joined us and the boys had a great time together. The cold rain from Wednesday was still going strong on Thursday, so we came home and got snuggled up and headed to bed. The birthday boy had a very happy day and loved all his cool gifts.

Friday 5/11 I had to leave at 7:15am to get the girls to dental appointments at 8am in Bozeman. Ammon came with us and brought his Calico Critters he got for his birthday. We had fun sorting through all the tiny food and accessories while the girls got fillings. They were numb for a while, so I decided to stop and the store and wait for the numbness to wear off, then grab them some lunch and head home. Addie had a track meet at 5pm in Dillon, MT, and I though her bus would leave around 2:30, but I was wrong and we had to RACE to get her checked in to school and on to the bus at 1:30…ooops! That night Heidi and her friend Sophie babysat while Rich took me out for Korean food. It was a great date that included a trip to Costco (so romantic! He knows my love language) for contacts and flowers ;) Saturday was a relaxing rainy day of indoor chores and hanging out. Addie and her friends Brianna and Izzi got to sing for the Mother’s Day brunch at American Lutheran Church, which was cool. They hung out at Mikayla’s working on school projects the rest of the day, and Addie went to watch them in “Camelot” for the second time this week. Meanwhile, the rest of us attended an open house for Colton Carter and his lovely bride, Janelle. They met on their missions to the Germany Alpine mission and Janelle is majoring in German education, which is so cool. They both attend Utah State, but will spend the summer in Livingston, so we look forward to getting to know Janelle better. It was great to see old ward family-friends and feel a sweet spirit at the party; I think they will do great things together!

Today we had a sweet church meeting. Richard gave a talk on Gratitude, and before he spoke, Emmalin Parks gave a talk about mothers and Vicky Denniston spoke about sibling relationships. All the messages were great! The Primary sang “Love is Spoken Here” beautifully…I loved seeing my boys up there singing! I got to sub in Niles’ primary class today, always an adventure. We talked about Jesus healing the sick and they all actually had some really sweet stories about receiving healing blessings through the priesthood. It made me so grateful to be yoked with a worthy priesthood holder in this life. It is wonderful that we both can call down the powers of heaven upon our family. I don’t know how people live without it!!! The kids gave me beautiful flowers, letters, cards, a bracelet, treats, and a NAP. It’s been a great Mother’s Day so far. If everyone goes to bed at a decent hour, it will have been a perfect day!

I hope the same is true for YOU. I will close with a favorite thought from Sister Marjorie Hinckley:
I don’t want to drive up to the pearly gates in a shiny sports car, wearing beautifully, tailored clothes, my hair expertly coiffed, and with long, perfectly manicured fingernails.
I want to drive up in a station wagon that has mud on the wheels from taking kids to scout camp.
I want to be there with a smudge of peanut butter on my shirt from making sandwiches for a sick neighbor’s children.
I want to be there with a little dirt under my fingernails from helping to weed someone's garden.
I want to be there with children's sticky kisses on my cheeks and the tears of a friend on my shoulder.
I want the Lord to know I was really here and that I really lived.
I am so grateful for the opportunities I have to truly live and love. Most of them come from my children, and for that privilege of motherhood, I am eternally grateful. If I am ever anything like my Savior, it will be because of them.

Have a great week! We love you and miss you all so much.

Love, Jamie and Rich and Family

MONDAY 5.7 FHE: Thanking our teachers

New Youth Programs coming in 2020 announced on Tuesday 5/8. This includes no more BSA for boys, no more Activity Days or Personal Progress for Young Women. Mixed feelings, but mostly excitement. Can't wait to hear from the prophet on June 3rd!!!

Wed 5/9: Niles playing second base in the cold rain

Wed. 5/9 Youth BBQ at Sacajawea Park
Jeanette, Sidney, Addie, Miki, and Jack

Youth: Hailey, Addie, Jack, Mitch, Emma, Tyler, Matty
McKenzie (?), Jeanette, Clara, Heidi
Jonathan & Mikayla
Crazy Kids!
 ***AMMON MEMORIES*** 













Bowling Alley Birthday Party =Ammon's dream come true
FRIDAY 5/11 DATE NIGHT! Rich being goofy
by the picture of his mission- Busan So Korea
Surprise! It's beautiful flowers!

Love my dude.

Mother's Day morning surprises 5/13

Spot the Melin Boys ;)

My bracelet from Heidi

Oldie but goodie: Three generations in 2011

Possibly the best meme ever...hahahahaha


FAMILY LETTER 07.28.19

Dear Loved Ones,                                                                                                        We have just ...